I’ve been told feminism is about advocating for respect, dignity, and opportunity for women among our male peers. You can be a Christian complementarian and advocate for all those things. The question is what is your perception of “respect, dignity, and opportunity,” and how would you achieve them? If your idea of opportunity in the workforce is access to abortion-on-demand, that’s a very hard pass for me. If we have to lower military standards for the sake of inclusion, I’m not a fan. If employers purposely choose to not promote men because they need more women in leadership roles (cartoonist Scott Adams ran into this problem, while in the corporate world), that’s discrimination.